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Breaking Barriers With Brushstrokes

Feeling Our Age exhibit with three people standing in front of portraits.

At 69 years old, Kathleen Cosgrove was enjoying life. She had raised her family, sold her company, and at 51 years old, went back to school where she graduated from the Pacific Northwest College of Art with a BFA. She was making art and she was happy. Then COVID came along.

Suddenly, age felt like a roadblock rather than a badge of honor. Kathleen found herself confined to her home, labeled as "vulnerable," despite recently conquering over 120 miles of the Camino de Santiago. Frustration simmered, fueled by the unfairness of it all.

Age discrimination, particularly for women, has been around for a long time. Studies reveal sobering statistics: 53% of women over 65 face ageism in the workplace, and older women are 40% more likely to experience discrimination in health care compared to men. For women of color, those percentage points grow even higher. The stark reality is that age bias permeates numerous facets of life.

Lucky for us, Kathleen’s an artist, and artists know that the best way to deal with emotions and frustrations is to make something about it. Harnessing her fury, she embarked on a journey titled Feeling Our Age. The mission? To amplify the voices of 60 women over 60, sharing their reflections on aging.

Finding the women turned out to be a pretty easy job. Women wanted to share their personal stories and challenges of what it’s like to be their age. What happened next, though, is what surprised Kathleen the most. 

“I expected everyone to feel my frustration about aging, but writing started coming in from women about how great their life is, and how much they enjoy their newfound freedoms. When asked to elaborate on their stories, people began to open up and describe the immense challenges they faced to get where they are today. I learned of their accomplishments, generosity, and of the sense of purpose that still drives them today.”

Feeling Our Age debuts at The Watermark at the Pearl and features 60 portraits, including two self-portraits by Kathleen. The first self-portrait is from the beginning of the project, and the second is from the end. 

For Kathleen, the project marked a profound shift. “I am no longer angry; I am a different person. This project, these women, changed my life. I am hopeful that together we can change what needs to be changed and that these women, and their wisdom, will make you feel hopeful too.”

To explore Kathleen's story and delve into the inspiring narratives of these women, visit FeelOurAge.com. Join the journey of resilience, hope, and the boundless power of aging.

An artistic portrait of a person.

Listen to our interview with Kathleen.

An artistic portrait of a person.